Jim - I no longer know what to say to you............and I think others are of the same opinion.
In your last note you insult someone who makes a perfectly valid point ....do you check what you write afterwards? You certainly don't correct your typing or spelling - but I assume you will think I am insulting you if I say that.....

We all hear what you are saying - BUT we don't all agree with you!

You have already decided - sometime ago - not to go to clubs....so don't let it bother you in the way it seems to. It isn't your problem anymore. Don't get so bent out of shape with an argument that cannot be won.
We had a procedure when I was a Union Shop Steward at my old factory job - Lets Agree to Disagree - or enter a Failure to Agree notice.

I hope you enjoy your continuing part in "Live Music"......I and others will continue to be involved and enjoy our own........

Keep Music Live and Alive!

Tim Radford