Nightwing, when the shock is over you'll see that it was time to leave anyway. When we don't move out of a situation when we need to, the Powers that Be will do it for us. If you are patient, and wait, and look for that place that is waiting for you, you will see just how well the Universes is looking after you. Been there, done that, am very, very happy it happened. Regards, Ditto