My Mum is the same, PFR. She needed more care that we could provide even with having meals and carers coming in 3 or 4 times a day so she is now in a lovely care home where there is round the clock care and everything is done for her. We visit at least once every couple of weeks and try to spend some time with her but, as you say, it is very draining. No point in getting frustrated as we know the cause and I can cope with answering the same questions every couple of minutes because she deserves my care and respect.

Not so on here. We do not know the cause and certain posters do not deserve respect. My hat is off to you for trying but I fear you are pissing in the wind.

DtG