I didn't add in my last posting on this thread the Scottish song 'Land 'O The Leal'in which a couple nearing the ends of their days look back on their life together and lament the loss of a son. Nothing is more grievious than the loss of a child. I had a grandson who died before he had chance to live. I never even saw him. I find 'Land 'OThe Leal' one of the saddest songs of all.