Steve - you have my sympathy. We had a family death a couple of weeks ago. I think it upset me because it was my father's younger brother and I never really thought of loosing my parents - although both of Tim's are now dead.I must admit I have been wary in the past of posting to one of these threads - even though I sympaphised deeply because I felt I didn't want to intrude. I think this is the dour, reserved Scot bit. I am practising showing my emotions on line and I am glad you are as well.
All these people do care.
Julie