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I don't think the book purports to be anything other than popular songs that people sand rather than those they made themselves [/i]

Jim I think Vic Smiths comment was a fair one. You were arguing that the book should have been something different from what it was which I think was unfair on Steve Roud. He set out at the beginning what he was going to write about. It may not have been what you were hoping for and it's OK to say that but to dismiss the book because it focussed on the songs that people sang and where they come from and not what you wanted to see was unfair particularly when you dismissed suggestions you write such a book.

You are also far too prone to treat criticism of your stance as an attack on you personally rather than simply disagreement with your take on the book. People respect the work you have done but that doesn't mean they have to agree with everything you say on the matter. You need to learn to cope better with differing opinions.