You could try 'Me Husband's Got No Courage In 'Im'. Not quite the unprompted female/male revishment you were looking for, but does contain the memorable lines:

'every night when I go to bed
I lie and throw me leg right o'er him
Me hand I clap between his thighs
But I can't put any courage in him..'

In my experience, men get very uncomfortable and defensive when a woman sings that in a folk club!