Thank you all so much!
I'd hear a couple of variations above but not all.
i wonder how many have heard this one which was sung to me by a resident of a nursing home in CT in perhaps 2010 or so.

Don't you call me Sweetheart I don't love you anymore!
Since I caught you necking with the girl next door!
I have found another who I love as well!
Don't you call me sweetheart, you can go to _ _ _ _ !

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