Thank you Steve and Jos!
I don't think I'll set it alight (might do though, could be fun!) and I've convinced Muslim husband that any alcohol will evaporate with the heat of the pudding. I just want to pour about three drops onto the thing once it's in our pudding bowls, then add double cream.
I see that Asda has what they call a 'mini bar' so might investigate that.

My fav whisky used to be Glenfiddich, but only a tiny wee taste at Hogmanay and Burn's Night. It's a bit strong for me.

Actually Jos, buying a quarter bottle of brandy and keeping it would be a good idea if we can't get a miniature. I'm sure it does keep for years!