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Thread #54227   Message #3972794
Posted By: GUEST,Grishka
22-Jan-19 - 06:10 AM
Thread Name: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes!
Subject: RE: Songs NOT to sing in nursing homes!
Some years ago is was in the news that a nursing home had banned "My Way" (from its collection of vinyl disks?), arguing that it made the inmates depressive. The worst problems are not being old facing death, but being suggested that they (we)
  1. are now no longer good for anything,
  2. have failed to achieve a lasting impact on the world,
  3. have failed to enjoy life "my way".
Songwriters should know that age has many more aspects, and that every year of our lives we face new challenges that ask us to make a new effort. A nursing home is not the waiting room for the grave.

Once I had the problem of selecting autumn songs. Almost all those I found talked about relaxing towards the end of one's life - this is not the right idea! Farmers nowadays know that there is work all year.