Say your goodbyes now. Make sure there is nothing unsaid that will come to haunt you. That way the grief will not have a sting, maybe an empty hole that will fill slowly, with good memories of the years.

What to say? Don't really know, you will know most of it.

The nearest I got was with an ex-girlfriend who asked me to go with her to the oncologist, it was tough but it was one thing I could do.

And remember we are here.