The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #30825   Message #397895
Posted By: JedMarum
14-Feb-01 - 11:47 AM
Thread Name: Change Direction - Door Swings Both Ways
Subject: Change Direction - Door Swings Both Ways
Years ago when my boss was trying to convince me I should bring in a consultant friend of his on a computer project I aksed him, "What if we get him in here and I don't like him?" ... and he said, "Well, the door swings both ways," meaning we could change our mind and get rid of him. We never had to, I liked the guy and his work was helpful, BUT I always remember that phrase. Now, when I'm looking at any decision - I remember most decisions can be reversed if need be.

Well this is by long way of explanation, but it was only 10 days ago that I proudly announced my decision to take a gig with a country band, and dedicate my efforts on behalf of the "Nashville Star Making Machinery" (thanks for that great expression Joni). Now I'm back here, tail between my legs saying - "I've changed my mind!" I quit the country gig. (Rick - your words were prophetic, just quicker then either of us thought)!

It was an interesting experience, and I worked hard with them for actually about 3 weeks, and really enjoyed working with such fine musicians - but at the end of the day, I just couldn't work that hard on music I don't love. The labor of love required to put up with the Star Making Path to Success just wasn't there for me. So I gracefully bowed out this week, gave notice and will finish up with them on Thurs evening. Thankfully my wonderful friends at Eammons Kitchen were willing to take me back, and I was able to get a few of my dates re-established (can you believe I had actually cancelled my entire calendar beyond April - what was I thinking). At any rate - I joked with the country folks, after I gave my notice, and after we had gotten over the "wailing and gnashing of teeth" stage - "I could be at the top of the Celtic or Folk charts and still have to keep a day job, but that's where my heart is."

I guess I need to be more careful about making such sweeping announcements, in the future ;-) but I suppose no real harm was done ... just a bit of egg on my face!