I've just quoted two examples Steve - there have been others - on this and the other two threads
As far as I'm concerned patronising lip service may not be despising but it certainly is belittling (denigrating)
Outdated and irrelevant has become par for the course - can't remember who said "we must move on" or "things change", but i boils down to the same thing
The fact that people refuse to acknowledge the damage the deliberate misuse of the term folk has done speaks volumes
Jim