Well just try to remember that you're not seeing whole people here, just what they choose to type in an internet forum. And also try to remember that an honourable disagreement is between two genuine and thoughtfully-conceived viewpoints. In the case in question, there's no doubt in my mind that one viewpoint was not thoughtfully-conceived, containing as it did expressions of ignorance of the facts and of resulting skewed priorities. I see no reason why I should accept my demurral from that as just another honest disagreement. More of a protest against intolerance, I'd say. Having said all that, I'd be the first to welcome her if she came back and not another word on this unhappy matter would I utter. And we are all grown-ups here and there is no need for anyone to lose sleep.