Jeri - this is how 'Benign indifference' works for me..

I don't care what other folks do
as long as it's within reason and mostly legal,
and they don't restrict or harm others...

In a perfect post-feminist society,
folks should be able to do mixed gender, men or female only activities
as freely as they want, with whom they want...
It shouldn't bother anyone...

I've been hoping for that for over 40 years,
but obviously we aint got there yet.
Society is still too immature...

I've also been hoping for religions to pack up and disapear...

Just shows the extent of the power of hope, whatever "Star Wars" says...