You're kidding? Have you lost your memory?
It would be callous to bring up the glorius tragic anguish which was soothed by faith and guided all concerned. Let it be said folks chose the best path for them and remained faithful in the midst of a momumental challenge and gift. Real human events rise above arguments that are pithy in comparison. The freedom to choose your own medicine is a key to a pursuit of happiness. If a person wielded their truth/lie like a club you should probably arm yourself but I don't see that happening.
If you still do not understand Steve, let it be.