My point about what constitutes a good or bad cat is that you can't measure some things and when you try, other things get ignored.

I said for years that Steve has the ego of 10 men. I say thats bad, he says thats good. So if you injure his ego its 10 times worse.
But we need good cooks so he's OK. ;*}

If you guys think you will 'best' a strong woman you are delusional.