Thanks Nigel , that’s very kind of you .          We still miss Tommy , as I’m sure you , Jane , and others bereaved on their voyage on the Rainbow .    Sadly , it’s likely we will lose our current foster child at some point , and he has had some close calls and is in hospital a lot , with Becky with him most of the time . But it’s ongoing and daniel might do better and live longer than expected , just as Tommy did