Well I've never read any flippant or dismissive comments from male or otherwise members of this forum about abuse of women and children, or read any remarks that it's not worth discussing. Of course it's a vitally important topic for public discussion, but your wrong-headed, preemptive bollocking of people who up to this point have done nothing wrong in this context is, well, let's say, a classic case of throwing the baby out with the bathwater (that isn't even dirty).