Sorry Guest, but, men dont have a monopoly on not hearing. I tried to talk to her for 10 years, but, she had this annoying habit of selective deafness.If she didnt want to hear it, she didnt hear it. It was just as though I had not spoken at all.Then, when it was too late, and I was leaving, she wanted to get a marriage councilor in on it.He told her that as long as one partner did not want to save it, then it was hopeless. She still didnt hear it.