The question of family or... is a bit inane, we know who are family is and to a lesser degree where we are.

A better question is who 'invited' you here?

I come here to hear people who are smarter than me and learn different POVs. In 'real' everyday life there is alot of stupidity out there but in mudcat town, it is to a delightful lesser degree. Its even fun when I learn the stupid one was me. But over the years my elders are mostly gone and I try to fill their shoes which I can't do. With the help of others I am reassured some of my opinions are shared. Other opinions are still unique to me - just like everyone else.

I was 'invited' by two gracious ladies at two separate times..