WOW! Well, I was off mudcat for awhile and came back to the de-clutter thread to see what folks were doing. Seemed normal until... Good heavens! There you are - methodically disposing of "Edmond's" everything! Scrolled backwards to no avail. So I pmed SRS. What a shock to the system - yours! And on Thanksgiving weekend - always a reminder. I do hope you are grieving well, in your own fashion. You have a terrific support group on MC and, others as well, I would guess. At this Covid time, everything is more difficult. But you seem to be moving forward in an extraordinarily healthy manner. You are in my thoughts as well. When all has been done that must be done and you are alone with your de-cluttered home, I trust you will reach out to people. Take care! Dorothy