I've had three mates in my life who I've known as "Jos", all three male. I've been misreading you all this time, Jos. I know it shouldn't matter, but, somehow, knowing the gender of the person I'm communicating with...

For a long time here I had the same issue with "Jeri..." Sorry, Jeri... And there's one person here who posts a lot and with who I have many an exchange whose gender I do not know...

Shoot...