I must admit I have had thoughts about this, though more about that I would let everyone know if something ever happened to Jessica. I really didn't think much that I'd be missed here until I got a pm from Mary asking where I was... but I'm sure Jessica would let you know if something happened to me as well. I do care about you all, even if I often don't know what to say, particularly if everyone else has already said it better. Shy sometimes.

Wesley, my heart is with you, too. I still miss my dad terribly and it has been over 8 years. Hell, I miss my father-in-law badly as well, and that's been almost 23 years. It never goes completely away.

CamiSu