Tact, respect and charm are unknown gifts to Trump enthusiasts but not Trumpers alone. Good manners are like a lubricant in society. To denigrate manners is not a worthwhile endeaver Jeri. Nor have I had the ambition to display tact respect and charm, especially to my inlaws.
When done well, manners are invisible but in their absence the effect is obvious and evident to all. Long ago I did not wish to be one of the boys or go along to get along. I would rather be a minority of one than be a champion of idiocracy. I paid the price for individuality and the cost is steep but worth it. The herd is not always 'right'.
Naturally I find paragons of virtue a pain in the ass as well. At least I stayed on topic.