The "rugby/hash" song Leprosy is a classic.
Two decades ago, a "visitor" interrupted the Hash "circle" and whined, "I have a friend that has leprosy, and it is a VERY serious disease, this is not funny!" .
The circle quickly switched to "F her/him.
Sincerely,
Gargoyle
EMPATHY
and
A quick wit and a thick skin are important.