srs IF people are not guided/educated between the ages of 10 to 21 playing catch up to think will be a losing battle and then we can still lose some to cults of all kinds along the way. Once the damage is done one can pretend to see things from their perspective and slowly throw monkey wrenchs into their belief system and have them argue themselves out of their worst beliefs. It works but only partially.
In religion its called the forgiveness thing :*?