Perception is everything... Months ago, the mean spiritedness that I thought came through disturbed me - I expected they were co-workers. Being a pushy broad, I wrote Troll, chiding him about the unattractiveness of it.

He wrote back immediately with the truth. (Thanks, Troll!) The funny thing is that ever since then it has seemed more like banter to me- I don't know if they changed or if the whole thing was in my head.

Ebbie