The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #31850   Message #415774
Posted By: Little Hawk
12-Mar-01 - 12:08 PM
Thread Name: Welcome new mudcatter MAV
Subject: RE: Welcome new mudcatter MAV
Well, it can be an interesting experience talking to and listening to people who live in a completely different mindset from your own...and not judging them in the process, even if they are inclined to judge you.

Then too, everyone seems to thoroughly enjoy having certain other folks to feel righteously superior to (I know I do! Ha! Ha!), and MAV has provided himself generously (if unwittingly) as just such a foil for those who utterly detest his kind of attitudes on things. He gives them someone to hate and castigate...someone to vilify and ostracize. I'm sure this is emotionally quite gratifying for them, so they should perhaps thank MAV for having given them the opportunity, and they probably would, if not for the fact that they enjoy hating him so much that thanking him would seem like sacrilege.

By the way, lest you misunderstand me, I disagree with most of MAV's rationale on most things, most of the time.

However, it's clear to me that like almost all other people he is defending what he thinks is right, proper, fair, responsible, and just.

That's what's so interesting about it.

To simply label him a "racist" is about as pointless as him labelling you a "communist", or an SLC, or whatever. While you are labelling MAV a racist, he is labelling someone else a racist. Obviously, you agree on one thing...it's bad to be a racist! Pretty ironical.

If his comments truly upset you, you can always just ignore them. I ignore certain people...like angry drunks, for example. I just avoid them. That doesn't cause them or me any problem.

- LH