Aw, Dorothy. Here's hoping the care is palliative and he's comfortable and will go on his own terms. It's sad you can't get there but I'm glad you're staying home safe, when faced with a possible lone drive and iffy weather. More worry for the family would compound things right now.

When was the last time you saw him and his family? I remember you describing a trip to PA a couple of years ago. And thank goodness for the friend who was once a babysitter!