Revenge and vengeance have nothing to do with bullying either. I am very fortunate in that I have not been bullied. A neighbour once tried but got very short shrift. I have however, as I said before, seen the effects on someone very close and it all but ruined their life. I will, with no exception, stand against bullying. I see very little evidence of it on Mudcat as the moderation team invariably put a stop to it. The only time anyone has tried to intimidate me here was with a sneaky PM threatening to come round to my house. I could have gone to the moderators or even the police but I gave them the benefit of the doubt and just did not respond. I have kept the PM though. Just in case it happens again!