Socially that is absolutely true. But it is complicated. Abortion is an example that can save lives and take lives but when its abolition is punitively applied no one wins.

The natural or cosmic reality at first look is unbelievably violent.
There is an invisible force that is opposite and far more powerful than gravity yet it may help galaxies last longer.

A moral and compassionate universe did create life that looks upon the universe/itself so despite the immense destructive forces, it may also bend toward a cosmic justice. Such is the mind of a cosmic god.

I suspect that eventually, no one wins.

Anthropormorphically yours,
Donuel