I've had my own share of signal songs but unfortunately for me they were smoke signals and up and away they went. I'm not ever going to allow myself to attach like that again. Call it self-preservation. I don't care if I live the rest of my life in a defensive posture, I will not allow myself to ever be overtaken by such things. That is not to say that I will not be emotional about "signal works"; the difference is in the control I will exercise.

Ellen