My practice now is acceptance of self, instead of judgment of self: accepting that I have done the best I knew how to do in order to take care of myself and to survive, instead of judging how well or how poorly I did so.
The relief from changing this attitude toward myself feels so strong. Strong relief and an overall lightness, in contrast to the heaviness and darkness of depression and the tension of anxiety.
It may not last, but I'll take it while it does last.