At my advanced age but deep immaturity I have finally learned that the best way to deal with someone trailing their coat for a row is
a) ignore the coat-trailing, and
b) change the subject.
So (ahem) I've just seen Small Things Like These and found it superb. It's a film version of Claire Keegan's novella about a Magdalen Laundry. Blew me away. Superb acting from all, wonderful filming of New Ross in atmospheric rain and snow, a deep quality of silence from Cillian Murphy.