Patty, good luck with all of those ducks you have lined up! I have to think about a wedding in the fall, so this is a good heads up. When my niece got married ~ 10 years ago I wore black velvet pants, a black/gray sparkly lacy top with similar color lacy jacket over it. All separates that went together well. After that I gained a lot of weight, but kept them; now I'm lighter than I was when I wore them but they'd probably work.

About worrying. MaJoC, hindsight is one way to see what was happening, and with the inauguration of 47 and the high level of worry I realized I was doing the same thing I did in 2013 when a new dean reorganized library staff into new jobs, and in particular the older staff into jobs they didn't want hoping we'd leave or retire. Many of us simply got angry and stayed that way, and I'm sure it's why I developed PMR; this spring the high level of worry about 47 may have brought it back.

Gardening today. This morning I found another large tobacco hornworm on the tomato plants; it has been relocated to "over there" where I threw it. In past years I've had datura plants they can move to, but none have popped up so far. The garden was sprayed with Bt to knock off any others too small to see yet.