Living dangerously, keb! Microwaves are a great convenience, but the main problems are overcooking and splatter. Find a durable cover (intended for microwave use) to save yourself a lot of cleanup.

I had the beginnings of The Talk with my daughter last night, spelling out that her father is having difficulties right now that aren't typical for him. It may be a medication he's on. We were talking via a video call and she looked like she was going to cry. We've been divorced for 25 years, were together for 20 before that, and have managed to stay good friends, but legally she is the relative who needs to be aware of his health.