There's always a fine balance between communicating effectively (meaning to start with in a way that others will be able to experience!) and biting your tongue. Sometimes silence is a temptation, but sometimes being silent in the face of insanity is corrosive. Trick is to find a way to say what needs to get said without starting a ruction. I've found it is usually worth the effort. I think choosing to communicate is generally the right path. Agreement is well and good; but communication is more important. Bottling it up isn't the best answer, at least not at all times. Sometimes asking the right question is the perfect answer. If you can think of it!A