OK, you are forcing me to be specific. What I had in mind as I wrote that, is, my ex wife hated sad songs. She referred to them as "emotional rape". God forbid anyone see her weep! Sure I have a violent side. My reptilian brain is still very much alive. However, My ability to reason and forsee consequences tend to keep that in line. At the other end of the spectrum is feeling nothing at all. I dont like that either, so, I try to "keep her in the channel".