Not patronising at all, Bernard, thank you very much. A lot of what I've been feeling, I know, is wanting to get back in touch with the good feelings I had when I worked as an EMT and aide in two hospitals and a nursing home in my 20's. I cannot do that kind of physical work anymore, but I am a really good listener and adept at putting people at ease, esp. in such situations (harpgirl, is this the "ego strength" you mentioned?**BG**)

Rick, thanks, if all else fails, I will be there to hold a hand, listen, or sing a lully.

I will have courage remembering your kindness, support, and encouragement...even at the thought of seeing Amergin nekkid!**BG**

This seems like a natural progression in my life. Perhaps it is my way of facing my own mortality and not feeling so sad at the thought of it, whenever it comes.

Thank you all, dear friends...I am practising what I know and also doing some improv of soothing tunes. I will ask the Great Spirit to guide me, too, so that I may really be of service.

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