Flattop, I think I love you... I'm a musicians wife (drummer) and I love to see him play. He played, just recently, at a gig in a hole in NY. La Bat Bar, actually. I went to support him, and I had a really good time. As said by others, let her choose. My first husband thought he was my father too.

As said, lighten up, have a good time.

Love, annamill