As I read these last postings since mine early this morning, my eyes fill up -- my heart opens outward with prayers and good thoughts - to Barry and his family and to the other unknown donor and family. Triumph and tragedy often go hand in hand.

have you signed your donor card? I have.

Should tragedy befall me one day and in losing my own life I can help others keep theirs -- it is a miracle of sorts. The donor lives on in the lives he/she has helped. That would be my silent legacy. And it is enough.

Ok, so the soap-box has come out -- sorry -- I've really been touched at the outpouring of love and prayers for Barry - many friends, but often from strangers as well.

I have known Barry but a few short years (is it 10 already?) , and his wit and never-ending optimism always makes me smile.

You are a part of all of us Barry -- and we keep you in our prayers and in our hearts.-- Get well soon --