Thanks Rita and Kat - having some idea of what to expect will help us all to give Barry some space when he needs it and lots of love -- We all tend to want our friends to get back into the swing of things quickly after an illness -- I think it make US feel better when they can. But we all must think of Barry and take it all one day at a time --

Barry - we're with you each step of the way -- let us know though - when to stay and when to go -- don't do the "stiff upper lip" stuff. Just say "Get out"

Bonnie and i were talking about singing London Julie this Tuesday night -- kind of sending it through space to you -- and perhaps making you smile in your sleep.

Lots of love and good wishes Joy