On a similar note, I have a friend who is a perpetual bachelor, very much against his will. The sort of guy who can get a first date with any unattached woman on the planet (he's very good-looking and charming on a first impression) but can't seem to get a 2nd date for the life of him.

Back me up here, now. His bathroom at home is a total mess; the inside of the toilet is black, there is a five-year buildup of electric razor stubble in the sink, and the bathtub looks like it's growing the hair that the stubble in the sink is cut from.

I told him if he wants to get a woman, he needs to clean his bathroom.

HE said that he doesn't bring them to his apartment, why should it matter?

I told him that women can tell if you're the type to clean your bathroom or not. Some sixth sense.

Who's right, me or him?

Alex