Susan,

Bob (RM) thinks we should use a nickname he gave me years ago- 53 Benowood, which includes the yr I was born (oops) and the benowood started because he and the manager where we were working at the time named me fender bender (for bending picks on guitar strings).

Then I literally bent the manager's car fender on a 'go-for' run. (They always sent me out for sandwiches.)

RM decided since he didn't like the "Benner' that 'Fender Bender" got shortened to, he would change it and 53 Benowood stuck. - Years later when our paths crossed again and the friendship developed into a marriage he still calls me '53 occasionally.

But - How do I go about changing the Member Name now?

Me or 53?