Peg, my ex and I agreed on that space thing. She was so logical, if she wanted to go to the opra, and I didn't, she would invite a friend to go with her. If I wanted to go to a Bluegrass Festival and she didn't, I would go alone. If I went to the opra when I didn't really want to go, it would be spoiled for both of us. That makes no sense. Too many people are stuck in that "Siamese twin syndrome" they think of marraige as two halves coming together to form a whole, when it should be two wholes coming together to enjoy each others contribution."In order to form a more perfect union.." If you have to ask permission to go across the street, RUN dont walk, and for chrissake dont move in with her!