CarolC... I'm as warm as warm gets, short of being a pussy. I guess the reason I don't trust most women anymore is because I was too much of a pussy in the past. I wasn't even going to post to this thread but I did so for the sake of humour. Screw that.

Zebedee... don't move in. Get married or get out, the quicker the better. Buy her nothing. Take her nowhere. Do whatever you want to do, whenever you want to. Never lie to her or yourself about anything. Talk about your feelings openly and honestly. Give her your love every day and be there for her when she needs you, unless she abuses it. If she weens about anything in the relationship, run as fast as you can and never look back. Life is waaaaaaaaay too short to be a pussy.

Yes, be warm, but never be a warm pussy. That goes for you gals, too.