Many times I want to say 'no' but I get too caught up in hurting the other person's feelings. So I skirt around it and somehow end up offering maybes that I know I will never follow through on. It makes me feel horrible. Yet I seem to not have the courage to say 'no'
Except when it comes to men suitors. There I can say 'no' if it is something I do not want to pursue. But if it has to do with friends and family I have such a difficult time.
What do I do guys, I am inflicted with nagging guilt.

Little Neo