Not really what you want, but John Stuart's "Me and Jim" is an extraordinary song on the subject. On "The Phoenix Concerts" If "Me and Jim" is what the song is called. If "Stuart" is how he spells his name. The Kingston Trio-Monkees-Fleetwood Mac guy.
Can't remember who wrote it, but "Some Fool Made a Soldier of Me", covered by the Kingston Trio, is good.