Well, bert, I have to say that sometimes I get pretty confused about it all.
On the one had, you've got people like me who play traditional music. But I can't find anyone who wants to talk about the kind of traditional music that I play.
Then, on the other hand, you've got threads about songs like 'The World is Old' which a lot of people are interested in, but which doesn't fall into the strict definition of folk music.
This issue is starting to make my head spin.
When I was working one summer as an interpretive naturalist, I came across a group of birders who were watching several birds (Woodcock) wading in a small pond. The birders all had spotting scopes. One of the birders said, "Oh! Come look in my scope! I count eight birds!" Another birder replied, "Oh, don't be silly! Come look in my scope! I only count seven!"
Good luck with your situation, bert. You have my sympathy.
Carol